Today, January 8, is the anniversary of the death of Galileo Galilei, who died in 1642. Although he was not the first to posit it, he said that the earth was not flat. (It had been pretty much proven by lots of people from the Egyptians to the Greeks and the Romans for a few thousand years.) He also argued for a heliocentric universe, saying that the sun does not rotate around the earth, but that the earth rotates around the sun. Both of these (along with some other scientific theories) got him into trouble with the Church of the day. They argued that the Bible clearly stated the earth was flat and that the sun and stars rotated around the earth.

Eventually the Church threatened to burn Galileo at the stake if he did not recant. So he did. Not out of scientific understanding or religious belief, but out of fear of a painful and horrible death.

He anguished over his decision for the rest of his life.

(Note: In 1992, 350 years later, the Catholic Church admitted it was wrong.)

Every year on this day I take some time to think about the things the church (or at least a large part of the church) argues about in the culture where they believe “the Bible clearly states” whatever they believe. In the past it has been support of slavery, genocide, subjugation of women, child labor, destruction of the environment, and taking of land from native inhabitants.

I know that the church has also done much good (public hospitals, education, promoting democracy, helping the poor, etc.), even having people within the church fight against the sins listed above. But that does not negate the fact that we still do some pretty bad things, and we still persecute those who stand up for something different.

While by no means being a loud voice crying out in the wilderness, calling for justice, peace, caring for the poor, and inclusiveness, I have spoken what I know God wants for our world. And have had some pretty surprising pushback from church members. Not threatened to be burned at the stake (at least, not yet) but some things I never thought followers of Jesus would do.

In Cayce, I had put on the marquee “Join Us In Praying For The President.” This was during the Obama administration. I had phone calls threatening me with violence, and threatening to tear down the sign. This was from people who claimed to believe the Bible. Well, all of it except for 1 Timothy 2:1-2. And Romans 13:1-7. And… Well, you get the point.

In Florence, I received several letters from an anonymous author threatening me and by implication my church with violence. I think the term used was “destruction and death will be brought upon you.” The letters were turned over to the police, and since the US mail was involved, they eventually went to the FBI. It was specific to me and my church. No other United Methodist Churches received similar letters, and none of the churches in Florence, regardless of denomination, did. The FBI said it was probably just a crank, but encouraged us to be careful. The trustees of the church, who are empowered to care for the safety of the church, wisely decided to hire an off-duty police officer to be at the church on Sunday mornings. Nothing ever happened of violence.

But I wonder how much money our church and lots of other churches have had to spend on safety. Money that could be used for other good things.

Most of the threats do not come from the world outside of the church. The world outside pretty much ignores the church these days unless it figures it can be used for political purposes. The threats come from within. And they come from people who believe that “the Bible clearly states…”

Back in the early 1980’s one of my favorite TV shows was Hill Street Blues, a cop show about a police station located on Hill Street in a large city. Almost every show started with the police officers getting their daily assignments from Sergeant Phil Esterhaus (Michael Conrad). He always ended his session with “Let’s be careful out there!” Esterhaus was not referring solely to physical safety. He was also referring to how they interpreted and used the law. It affected real people.

Sometimes I think every church service should end with the words, “Let’s be careful out there.”

Leonardo DaVinci’s famous painting, Mona Lisa, lies protected deep within the Louvre Museum in Paris. Guards surround it and thick glass covers it to keep air and light from destroying this ancient work of art. Crowds of people come to look at it and try to get a photo through the dark glass that encases it. It has not changed It has not changed in over 500 years. The same enigmatic smile, the same background. Those who looked at it in the early 1500s saw the same thing I saw when I was there (without, of course, the dark glass case, the guards, and the people with cameras).

Outside of the museum, in one of its courtyards, is a vine that has been growing for years, perhaps since the museum was founded in 1793. Not many people notice the vine, but it is carefully attended by a gardener. While the vine is the same vine it has always been, it does not look the same as it did in the past. It is living and growing.

For those of us who are followers of Jesus, our relationship with Jesus often becomes like that of the painting. We have not changed, we have not moved, we have not grown. We worship, study, pray to, and serve not a living God, but a portrait of what that God was like back when we first came to Christ. We turn a living relationship into a set of closely guarded and protected rules and dogma.

Yet Christ is alive and our relationship with him should be like that of the gardener and the vine. (As a matter of fact, Jesus said something about him being a vine and we the branches- a living relationship.) We should be growing, expanding in grace, serving in new ways, and welcoming people to the family of Christ who are different from us. 

Here’s a quick way to tell if you’re worshiping an idol, or in a relationship with a living God. As in all things be honest. Answer these questions: 1. How have you changed in the last year? 2. What do you believe now that is different from what you believed when you first came to Christ? 3. Would those who know you best say you are changing in ways that make you attract people to Jesus?

What is true of our relationship with Christ is also true of our relationship with the people around us. As a matter of fact, Jesus said that the way we treat others is the way we treat him.

So, on this first day of a new year, I ask myself, am I growing in my relationships, or are they pretty much the same as they always were?

The answers will tell a lot about whether my relationship is with a painting or a living vine.

(Credit Where Credit’s Due Department: the idea for this came from Selling Water By The River by Shane Hipps. I highly recommend the book.)

The Oxford English Dictionary, the preferred dictionary for all weight-lifters, recently announced their Word of the Year 2023. It is rizz. It is taken from the word charisma, which is obviously too long for many people to pronounce today. Also, you cannot further murder the English language by easily turning it into a verb or adjective. You can “rizz someone up” or “be all rizzed up” but it’s harder to say “I used my charisma to charm someone into doing something I wanted,” or “they were overwhelmed by the charisma of the event.” So now my 20-pound OED will have a few more grams added to it for the sake of ease.

As most of you know, I am a logophile, a lover of words. After all, that’s our primary means of communication. Even other forms of communication- music, art, interpretative dance, smoke signals- are interpreted back into words. They not only inform us, they shape us and the world around us.

Some words stick around but are rarely used. When was the last time you used the word “davenport” to refer to a piece of furniture?

A word we need to bring back is crapulous. It doesn’t mean quite what you think (definition: to feel ill from overeating or binging), but it is a great word for an election year. And it seems we just break into laughter when someone uses the term bipartisan these days.

If you have been around me much for the last 10 years you will notice that I often wear a chain around my neck with two brass washers on it. Each washer has a word on it. One was suggested by my wife Cathy, when I asked her to describe me in one word. I’ll not tell you the word, so you can just imagine what it it, but I wear it to try and live up to what she sees in me. The other has a word that I choose for the year, something I work on or try to live up to. For instance, in 2022 the word was Listen. I wanted to listen more- to people, to nature, to the Spirit. In 2023 my word has been Notice. I decided I needed to pay more attention to what was around me. It has been an interesting year.

I’ve been thinking about my word for 2024. I’ve decided it will be Courage.

By nature, I am a people-pleaser. I do my best to help people get along with each other. I am not very good at confrontation. When I do that, I often feel like I am condemning others- not just their ideas or opinions, but the person themselves. Telling them that they are not worthy of recognition. Maybe that’s because I have often felt that way myself. So, instead of “speaking the truth in love” I do my best Rodney King. (For those of you under 40 years old, Rodney King is an African-American who was caught after a high-speed car chase and then beaten unmercifully by the police. Riots ensued. And seeing even more destruction going on, King made a plea to “get along” rather than saying something like “we need to find a way to prevent this kind of brutality.”)

This next year so much hangs in the balance in our country. We have a significant number of people who have given up on democracy and are ready to turn to a dictatorship. So, what I will need is courage, along with wisdom to speak in winsome ways. Even the prophets of the Hebrew Scriptures always ended up giving some hope. Courage is my word.

The purpose of this rambling is not to express my politics, though obviously I do. It’s to get to this question: What is your word for 2024?

PS- If you want to order a word for yourself, go here.

August 2, 2039.

That’s the date I will die, according to this World Population Website.

Oh, it gives all kinds of other equally cheerful information. Like the number and percent of people on the planet younger than me (as of this writing 7,571,041,802; 94%) as well as the much smaller number and percentage older (502,705,603; 6%). And, for even more enjoyment, you can watch the number on the left side constantly get larger, while the right side gets smaller.

Significant dates are given. My birthday- which is supplied by me (May 28, 1953) and the date I turned 18 (May 28, 1971). No big surprise there. Some interesting dates were the day I became the 1 billionth person on the planet (November 21, 1964), along with 2 billionth (November 10, 1974), just a few days shy of ten years later. Three billion came about 6 months faster, April 30, 1984. Four billion on September 30, 1992, one year and seven months faster. We hit five billion seven years and ten months later, on July 23, 2001. Six billion came along on March 4, 2010, slowing down the billion new person rate to 8 years, 9 months. Seven billion came along on July 3, 2018, 8 years and 4 months later. I’ll be the 8 billionth person on this more crowded blue ball on February 17, 2028. Seems we’re slowing down a little. I’ll make nine billion on May 13, 2039, celebrate my birthday two weeks later, and then check out about 2 months after that.

Turns out if I lived in Canada, I’d live a little more than a year more. Zimbabwe would take me out 6 years earlier. People born on my birthday in Australia, Norway, and Japan are all going to outlive me. Almost all of Asia (except Japan), South America, Africa, and a large amount of Europe will pass before my very eyes. I have my ideas about some of the places, but on a lot, I wonder why.

People have asked me from time to time if I would like to know when I would die. I usually told them I’d rather know where rather than when. Because then, I wouldn’t go there.

Seeing a date, even though it is just a statistical average, brings some things home. It’s less than 16 years away. Sixteen years ago was 2007. Doesn’t seem that long ago.

I heard someone say that it isn’t that life is so short, it’s that death is so long. The great 20^th century philosopher Woody Allen once said “I don’t want to achieve immortality through my work. I want to achieve it through not dying.” He also said (my favorite quote), “There are worse things in life than death. Have you ever spent an evening with an insurance salesman?”

Stoic philosopher Seneca said, “It is not that we have a short space of time, but that we waste much of it.” When I think that I probably have less than 16 years left, and there is so much I have not seen or done that I would like to see and do, I feel like a kid at Disneyland who has only one day and wants to ride every ride and see every show, yet knows he will not only not be able to, but will spend a lot of that time standing in line. Tempus, it seems, is fugiting.

I’m a follower of Jesus. And because of that, I believe that my life (and yours) will go on after this earthly veil has been torn away. But I am not really in a hurry for the tearing. Recently a few close friends have died. They knew they were dying, and were ready, even anxious, for the transition to their new home to come. While I am not afraid of death, and I know it must come, I don’t have that “I can hardly wait to get to heaven” attitude some have expressed. I like it here. Like it a lot.

In the Hebrew Scriptures, a psalm attributed to Moses has the line, “Teach us to number our days so we may gain a heart of wisdom.” (Psalm 90:12) Obviously, none of us knows exactly how much longer we will live. An accident, disease, or heart attack may take me out tomorrow. Or I may live into my 90s, like Jimmy and Rosalyn Carter. Regardless of the unknown length, like the Carters, I don’t want to waste my time. There’s more to do than stand in line.

The season is upon us! From next Thursday, November 24, 2023, until February 11, 2024, we will find all kinds of ways to feast. We start off with Thanksgiving and all the things that follow on the weekend. We quickly move into Christmas, with parties, family gatherings, office celebrations, church meals, and just plain pigging out on peppermint and chocolate. Then New Year’s, with more feasting on whatever your local custom is. (Ours is black-eyed peas, greens (collard or turnip), sweet potato in any form, and ham!) We then put on loose-fitting clothes and make our way to Super Bowl Sunday, where wings, barbecue, chips, dips, and whatever one-handed food we can make ends up being eaten in front of the tv. It’s a good thing Ash Wednesday starts three days later. For those who celebrate Lent, we can decide to fast, or at least to cut back.

Wait a minute! That’s Valentines’ Day. And I must celebrate with a special meal with my honey. Reckon I can get a special one-day deferment from the preacher? Oh yeah….I am the preacher. No problem.

Whenever this time of the year rolls around, I think of the tables I’ve sat at for all the meals. Growing up, most of these meals would be at my mother’s family homes (her two sisters, Louise and Pauline). Invariably, the adults would sit at “the big table,” while kids would sit at card tables. We had to sit at them until a space opened at the big table due to someone going to heaven. It was okay. It was what we were used to. No one had a home with a dining room big enough to seat upwards of 14 people. I was about 16 when I finally got to sit at the big table.

I’ve sat around all kinds of tables in my life. Dining room tables, kitchen tables, lunch room tables, conference tables, lab tables, picnic tables, and even tiny TV tables (the worst of the lot). We’ve often described the Kingdom of God as a giant banquet table where there was room for all. Though I have rarely used an actual table for communion, we have often called the kneeling rail and altar the communion table, and I have always invited everyone who would come to the table to come. (If they could not come for some reason, I would take the bread and wine to the people at their seats. But it always seems to feel better to eat that meal next to other people kneeling with you.)

Lunchrooms in middle and high schools are a great place for sociologists to study human grouping behavior. One of the most unsure times of any kid’s life is the day they first walk into the lunchroom and wonder where they will sit, who they will sit with, and if they’ll be accepted.

Several years ago, I experienced one of the maddest times I have had in my ministry. The youth group of the church I was serving was invited to meet with a group of a different denomination. I thought it would be a great thing for both churches. When they returned, I found that they had a good time, singing, playing, sharing. Until the closing worship. The host church had communion, and the youth and counselors from my church were told they could receive a blessing, but not communion. So, while the other kids got bread and wine, my kids got to look on. It’s like going to someone’s home for a dinner party, and when time for the meal comes, you are told you can be a part of the prayer but not the meal. I went ballistic. I probably said some things that were not very kind. But these were my kids. Actually, these were God’s kids. Brothers and sisters of Jesus.

In the churches I pastored, I worked hard to overcome this. We emphasize that there’s room at the table for everyone. One of my favorite songs is by Carrie Newcomer, where she sings about it. And people who have been excluded from decision-making, who have been denied power and authority, often say they want a seat at the table. Women and all types of minorities will testify to this.

One of the most interesting tables I have seen was at Cayce United Methodist Church. It was donated to the church by a business in the area. It was huge and trapezoidal. It would probably seat 15 people. One end was very narrow, and the two long sides spread out as they went to the far end. It took me several years to figure out why the table was that way. Finally, it dawned on me. Wherever you sat, you could see everyone else without having to lean forward and block someone else’s view or voice. Clever table.

Still, there was a head to the table. The narrow end was considered the head.

The story is told of one of our former bishops who was visiting a church for one of their grand occasions. They had a luncheon following the service. The bishop served his plate and was about to sit at one of the tables when one of the church leaders said “Bishop, come up here and sit at the head of the table.” To which the bishop replied, “Wherever I sit is the head of the table.”

And that’s the problem, isn’t it? Even if there were room at the table, there’s always a head of the table. I wonder if the disciples argued about who got to sit by Jesus at their tables. Even if you can see everyone, there’s still some kind of pecking order. Jesus mentions it in one of his parables.

I’ve been reading Sarah Bessey’s book, Jesus Feminist. (Why hasn’t someone told me about her? Her writing is incredible! I’m going to have to buy another highlighter and a new tin of book darts just for this book!) She starts off by saying that maybe the table is not a good metaphor for our life together in Christ. Rather than a table, how about a fire pit with plenty of chairs that can be moved and arranged and changed as needed. Sitting out under the dome of the night sky, drinking good wine or strong tea (she’s Canadian, so tea is very important), and sharing life together. Sounds pretty good to me.

Years ago, I watched the movie Green Pastures. It’s a 1936 movie with an all-African American cast. It tells the stories of the Bible from the viewpoint of rural Black people. Despite some of the stereotypical things in the movie, it has some very good and very moving scenes. One of the opening scenes shows a bunch of people standing around a park filled with live oak trees, what you might find on John’s Island. The camera goes around and you begin to notice that some of the characters have wings. They are angels. All of the people, it turns out are in Heaven. After a few minutes, a distinguished-looking man in a coat with tails, tie, and hat walks out among the crowd. All the people and angels turn to look at him. He is the Lord. He looks at everyone and says, “Let the fish fry begin!”

That’s what I think the Kingdom of God is like. There may be a table laden with all the best food. It may be like a fish fry or a barbecue. It’s got plenty for everyone. You pick up a plate, load it up, start eating and talking with whoever is near you. Then you find a new group to eat with. Then another.

The table, as good as it may be, still speaks of law, hierarchy, status, and prominence. Is it any wonder that C.S. Lewis, in his wonderful story The Lion, The Witch, and The Wardrobe, has Aslan, the Christ figure, sacrificed on a table. And when Aslan is resurrected, the table is broken, never to be used again. The breaking of the table was not just so sacrifices could never be made again, but so that all that went with it was done away.

Tables may be good. But they aren’t the Kingdom.

Note: This is part of an ongoing inner conversation I have dealing with questions about my faith. You might want to read my post A Questionable Faith if you have not.

Why would someone, especially Jesus, have to die for something I did? How does that make things better? How does that satisfy justice?

I was raised on what most people call the substitutionary theory of atonement. That is a fancy way of saying “You did something wrong, it has to be paid for, and someone else paid it.” And it didn’t matter what was done, the penalty was death. Kill another person? Someone has to die. Cheat on your spouse? Someone has to die. Steal a 25-cent plastic toy? Someone has to die. Tell your mother you had brushed your teeth when you hadn’t? Someone has to die.

It was based primarily on the Christian Scriptures “All have sinned and fallen short of the glory of God” (Romans 3:23) and “the wages of sin is death.” (Romans 6:23) Sin was considered doing something wrong, which separated us from God, therefore ensuring we would not go to heaven (where God is) but instead go to Hell (where God is not), unless somebody who was innocent paid the penalty for me (Jesus). 

The Hebrew Scriptures tell us that each person is responsible. “Fathers shall not be put to death for their sons, nor shall sons be put to death for their fathers; everyone shall be put to death for his own sin.: (Deuteronomy 24:15)  The prophet Ezekiel says “The person who sins will die. The son will not bear the punishment for the father’s iniquity, nor will the father bear the punishment for the son’s iniquity; the righteousness of the righteous will be upon himself, and the wickedness of the wicked will be upon himself.” (18:20) And Jeremiah echoed Ezekiel- ““In those days they will not say again, ‘The fathers have eaten sour grapes, And the children’s teeth are set on edge. ‘ But everyone will die only for his own wickedness; every man who eats sour grapes—his own teeth shall be set on edge.” (31:29-33)

But Christian theology, at least this version of it, says that Jesus took the punishment so we do not have to.

There are several other ideas behind this. The first is that God, being holy and pure, cannot be in the presence of anything that is not holy and pure. It would “contaminate” God, as it were. And since we are unholy and impure, God cannot have us in God’s presence. The Hebrew Scriptures are filled with warnings about approaching God and not being holy and pure. Christian Scriptures often echo this theme.

But I question this. If we are creations of God, even if we go our own way, why would God not want us to be in God’s presence? Jesus told a parable about a father who had a son who took his inheritance early (treated his father like he was dead), left home, and squandered his inheritance. When the son came to his senses, he decided to go back to his dad. He was sorry for what he had done, and was willing to take whatever the father meted out to him, he just wanted to be back. In the story, which Jesus tells as a way of talking about God’s relationship with us, the father sees the son coming while the son is a long way off, and runs to meet him. The only way you see someone a long way off is if you are looking for them. The father had been looking for the son, wanting him to come back. And when the son starts into his apology, the father basically ignores it. The son is still pretty much “unholy and impure,” yet the father welcomes him in. Seems like Jesus was trying to tell us that maybe our understanding of God is majorly wrong. Maybe God wants us back no matter what.

The other idea is atonement means to bring back together something that has been broken, especially a relationship. What if Atonement is not about paying a penalty for something we have done that is wrong, but is more about being together through all that we go through?

The one thing all humanity has in common is death. Everyone will die. It is the “great equalizer.” In some churches a pall, a large white cloth, is placed over a coffin, hiding the intricacy or the simpleness of the coffin. Everyone is the same. Plain pine box or titanium sarcophagus, we all are the same.

And while death is the common denominator of humanity, it is the defining difference between humanity and divinity. God, by very definition, cannot die.

Part of Christian theology, a part that is not emphasized enough, is that since humanity cannot lift itself to divinity, the Divine becomes human to the point of giving up everything that it means to be divine and taking on death. Paul, an early follower of Jesus, put it this way- Let the same mind be in you that was^[a] in Christ Jesus,

 who, though he existed in the form of God,
    did not regard equality with God
    as something to be grasped,
but emptied himself,
    taking the form of a slave,
    assuming human likeness.
And being found in appearance as a human,
    he humbled himself
    and became obedient to the point of death—
    even death on a cross. (Philippians 2:5-8)

So, perhaps Jesus’ death was not a price God paid to cover up our wrongdoings. Instead, it was God saying that God has experienced everything God’s creation has and will experience. It’s our way of knowing we are not alone in anything.

Atonement becomes less of a way of paying for our sins, and more of a way of experiencing life together. We are “at-one” with God because God has become one of us.

I used to sing an old song that went 

“I had a debt I could not pay,
He paid the debt He did not owe,
I needed someone,
To wash my sins away.
And now I sing a brand new song,
“Amazing grace” all day long,
Christ Jesus paid the debt,
That I could never pay.” 

But perhaps a better song would be:

“Oh, I’ve heard a thousand stories of what they think You’re like
But I’ve heard the tender whisper of love in the dead of night
And You tell me that You’re pleased and that I’m never alone.” (Good Good Father, Chris Tomlinson)

And if this is true, then what am I afraid of?

For a long time, I had trouble with my name. My middle name is the name my father went by. I used to not tell people. It dealt with my anger towards my father (which I have mostly gotten over, but that’s a story for another time).  However, it was my first name that gave me trouble. Michael. Or, as most people call me, Mike. Not a bad name. It means either “lover of God,” or “one who is like God.” Comes from the name given to one of the archangels. Quite a bit to live up to. But that was not the problem.

The problem was its popularity. From before I was born until I was in my early 50s, it was the most popular name given to boys in America. And whenever you hear your name, you usually turn to see who’s calling you. Walk down a crowded street and shout “Hey Mike!” and see how many people turn around. When someone knows your name, they often have some kind of power in your life. Back when telemarketers used to call me at my churches, they would start off using my name as if they had been sitting in the front pew for the last few years. And it would make it harder for me to politely hang up the phone and get back to work.

Frederick Buechner wrote that when Moses wanted to know the name of the god who was talking to him at the burning bush (Exodus 3), it was so that he could have some power over that entity. God, of course, was not fooled. He gave him the answer “YHWH”, because the Hebrews did not use vowels. It could be translated YaHWeH- which means “I am who I am,” but also means “I am who I was“ and “I am who I will be.” Later God says, “Just say ‘I Am’ sent me.” And God hasn’t had a single moment of rest since. (I often think it could be pronounced “YooHWooH”.)

Names are also a sign of caring and attachment. My wife (name: Cathy) volunteers at the Florence Area Humane Society. She works mostly with the horses brought into their horse farm, but some of the larger dogs end up there. Everyone of them has a name. If they don’t have a name when they are brought in, they are given names immediately. Cathy comes home and talks to me about Rocco, Waylon, Willie, Reba, Kiera, and all the others. She cares for them more because she knows their name.

In the second creation story in Genesis (chapter 2), God brings the animals to Adama (the human God had created) and tells Adama to name them. That puts us in a relationship with them. We are to care for them. Bob Dylan wrote a song about it. The Hebrew scriptures tell us many times that God knows our name (e.g. Isaiah 43:1, Exodus 33:17, Isaiah 49:1), as well as the Christian scriptures (John 10:3, Luke 10:20, Revelation 2:17, to name a few). Not only does God know our names, God has named the stars (Psalm 147:4). This means God cares for all of creation.

Listening to the news about war, I thought about the casualties. Those in charge of making the decisions about going to war are usually told the estimated number of people who will die. It is usually given in percentages. “General, if we send in 10,000 troops we estimate we will suffer only 4.3% loss.” Doesn’t sound like much. Until you realize that its 430 people. Still, that sounds doable. But what if we said “Here’s the names of those most likely to die.” Even more, what if we added information, and photos. “Here’s John Brown. He’s the youngest son of his parents. He’s engaged to Sue and is planning on getting married when his tour of duty is up. He’s being sent in the front lines because he is a private, and he is more likely to die.” We often tell the story of the person after they are killed. What if we told their name beforehand? Reckon we would work harder to find ways other than war to solve problems? (Just a thought. Not looking for an argument.)

Farmers usually do not name their livestock. It makes it harder to butcher and eat JoJo the cow, Porky the pig, and Henrietta the hen. And they especially do not let their children name the animals.

Children (and adults) will often give names to inanimate objects, too. A young girl names her doll Susie, and it becomes more precious than unnamed dolls. A budding baseball player names their glove the name Snagglepuss, and they must have it at their games if they are to play their best. A teenager gets their first car and names it Prince (the name of my first car, a Plymouth Valiant), and it becomes important to them. Even a toddler will name their pacifier Binky, and no other pacifier will do.

When I lead prayer in church on Sundays, I try to pray for people by name. Not just “all the sick,” but for “Dora, Carl, Frances, and Cindy.” Names mean something. Something special. Don’t think so? Call the person you’re in a close relationship with the wrong name, and see what happens.

I’ve been going to Manna House, a local feeding ministry in Florence. There were about 40 people standing in line when I was there the other day. One of them talked with me. He told me his name, John. Now, I can’t stop thinking about him.

I wonder if it’s that way with God, who knows our name?

“There are no bad questions.” My mother told me that when I was 7 years old. We were sitting at the kitchen table. I had just asked her “if someone were hypnotized to believe they were Superman, could they lift a building?”. I told her that someone at school had told me that was a stupid question, and my mother, rather than using the word “stupid,” gave me that advice. Since then I have been asking questions.

Back in the 1980s (which doesn’t seem that long ago to me, but it does to most of the world today), a friend had a bumper sticker on her car that said “QUESTION AUTHORITY.” Since she was a counselor, I asked her if that meant she was an authority on all questions. She patiently explained to me that we should constantly question those in authority, or at least those who loved being in authority. Which I have also been doing most of my life.

And sometimes being in positions of authority myself, I have been questioned by those around me.

For most of my life, I have been a minister. For 44 of my 70 years, I have administered the sacraments, ordered the life of the church (as much as it can be considered ordered), and led people in helping others both near and far. But mostly I have preached. My sermons have not always been that long, usually 18 to 22 minutes. But over 44 years, with an average of 52 sermons a year, that’s 2,288 sermons, lasting about 45,760 minutes (or 763 hours, or 32 days nonstop). It’s because of the “inevitable occurrence of the sabbath,” as preachers are wont to say. No matter what else this week has held, Sunday’s coming and I better have something to say. Looking out over my sermons from the past almost half-century, I acknowledge that I have asked more questions than given answers.

I’m not in bad company.

Jesus himself asked 339 questions according to the gospel writers. He was asked 183. He answered only 3.

That’s how I dealt with most of the Scriptures I used, both the Hebrew Scriptures (what many call the Old Testament, though my Jewish friends would beg to differ), and the Christian Scriptures (what many call the New Testament). I read the Scriptures and asked “Should you really desire people to take babies and dash their heads against the rocks, even those of your enemy?” (Psalm 137:9) I read the words of Jesus and asked “Did he really call the woman who was begging him to heal her daughter a dog?” (Mark 7) I hear people say things like “God has everything under control,” and I ask “Did God control that drunk driver who hit and killed the man standing on the sidewalk at the corner of the church property? What kind of god would do that?”

And, as in so many things, I find I do not have the answers. So I just keep asking the questions.

Poet Rainer Maria Rilke is probably most well known for his advice: “Be patient toward all that is unsolved in your heart and try to love the questions themselves, like locked rooms and like books that are now written in a very foreign tongue. Do not now seek the answers, which cannot be given you because you would not be able to live them. And the point is, to live everything. Live the questions now. Perhaps you will then gradually, without noticing it, live along some distant day into the answer.” (Letters To A Young Poet)

And that’s what I’ve tried to do most of my life, live with the questions.

One faithful church member who had endured my sermons for a couple of years approached me one Sunday after worship. From our previous conversations, I knew he had a much stricter understanding of his faith, and was not comfortable with how I expressed mine. Still, we got along and talked, ate meals together, and tried to help our community whenever we could. But he was more than a little upset at some of the questions I had raised that day. He said, “You know, your faith is questionable.”

Turns out, he’s right.

(Note: From time to time I am going to post some of the questions I have dealt with, and my thoughts, if not answers, about them.)